Relationships, attachment & love

How we bond, fall in love and seek safety in our relationships — attachment patterns, closeness and distance, and what lies behind the repetitions.

Why the Therapeutic Relationship Matters More Than Choosing the Right Approach
Why the Therapeutic Relationship Matters More Than Choosing the Right Approach
Why We May Feel Invisible in Our Relationships
Why We May Feel Invisible in Our Relationships
Trauma in the Brain and in Relationships: When the Past Lives Inside the Present
Trauma in the Brain and in Relationships: When the Past Lives Inside the Present
Holding Two Contradictory Truths at Once: Maturity in Relationships and the Acceptance of Complexity
Holding Two Contradictory Truths at Once: Maturity in Relationships and the Acceptance of Complexity
Abandoning Ourselves: The Fear of Authenticity in Relationships
Abandoning Ourselves: The Fear of Authenticity in Relationships
When Our Emotions Overwhelm Us: Why Emotional Regulation Matters in Relationships and Why Love Alone Is Not Enough
When Our Emotions Overwhelm Us: Why Emotional Regulation Matters in Relationships and Why Love Alone Is Not Enough
The Therapeutic Relationship in Gestalt Psychotherapy: When Change Is Born from a Real Encounter
The Therapeutic Relationship in Gestalt Psychotherapy: When Change Is Born from a Real Encounter
Individual Symptoms and Relationships: Personal Experience as a Sign of Relational Difficulty
Individual Symptoms and Relationships: Personal Experience as a Sign of Relational Difficulty
When Care Is Not Predictable: Insecure Attachment and a Child’s Need for Emotional Safety
When Care Is Not Predictable: Insecure Attachment and a Child’s Need for Emotional Safety
Security That Is Learned: How Our First Relationships Are Written Into Us
Security That Is Learned: How Our First Relationships Are Written Into Us
The Echo of the Father’s Emotional Absence in Adult Relationships.
The Echo of the Father’s Emotional Absence in Adult Relationships.
When Love Remembers: From Early Relationships in Infancy to Adult Romantic Attraction
When Love Remembers: From Early Relationships in Infancy to Adult Romantic Attraction
Why does the way we connect - attach to relationships matter?
Why does the way we connect - attach to relationships matter?
Attachment quality, or the way we connect: seeking security and closeness in our relationships.
Attachment quality, or the way we connect: seeking security and closeness in our relationships.
The Parent-Child Relationship as the Basis for Cognitive and Emotional Maturation.
The Parent-Child Relationship as the Basis for Cognitive and Emotional Maturation.
The Addiction of Incomplete Relationships.
The Addiction of Incomplete Relationships.

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